What would make you answer a stranger?
From The Question Room, a Club column. About this column ↗
An empty "hey"? A compliment about your body? A long message listing everything someone wants?
Or one sentence that proves they actually read your profile?
If you're sending a first message, imagine receiving it after twenty others.
What would make you stop scrolling?
Asking because "we're into the same things" is rarely enough to start a conversation.