Which would sting more?
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Your partner tells you someone flirted with them.
Which detail catches you?
A. They enjoyed it.
B. They didn't tell you until the next day.
C. They seemed completely relaxed about it.
There isn't a correct option. The point is that "jealousy" can cover several very different feelings.
It's worth knowing which detail matters before arguing about the whole situation.