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YOU'REJEALOUS.NOW WHAT?

You wanted this. Maybe it was even your idea. So why does it hurt?

A frank guide to jealousy in consensual open relationships. Not a lecture about being more evolved — an honest way to examine what you feel and what happens next.

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For adults · English edition · Original F-Lab publication

Cover of You're Jealous. Now What? — a book about jealousy and open relationships
234Pages
13Chapters
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THE REAL QUESTIONS

IT'S NOT ONE FEELING.

Jealousy can mean fear, envy, grief, humiliation, anger, or the realization that an agreement has actually been broken. Different problems need different conversations.

01What exactly hurts?

Separate what happened from the story your mind is telling. Is it fear, comparison, exclusion, or a real change?

02What do you need?

Understand your triggers, name your boundaries and speak honestly — without pretending every feeling is rational.

03What happens next?

Before, during and after a partner's date, learn which conversations matter and what needs to change.

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INSIDE THE BOOK

13 CHAPTERS.
NO EASY ANSWERS.

Real titles from the book's table of contents.

  1. The Feeling You're Trying Not to Have
  2. What Exactly Hurts?
  3. What Are You Afraid of Losing?
  4. Is This in Your Head, or Is Something Actually Changing?
  5. You Agreed to This. So Why Does It Hurt So Much?
  6. Your Triggers Are Weirdly Specific
  7. Why Are You So Fucking Excited?
  8. When Another Relationship Starts Taking Up Too Much Space
  9. Change the Situation or Change Your Reaction?
  10. How Much Do You Really Want to Know?
  11. When Your Partner Is the Jealous One
  12. Say What You Actually Need
  13. Before, During, and After the Date
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REAL PEOPLE. MESSY FEELINGS.

WHEN THE FEELING
DOESN'T FIT.

For people in open marriages, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or trying to decide whether this relationship structure is right for them.

“Sometimes the alarm is going off because there is smoke.”

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You're Jealous. Now What? is a 234-page English-language ebook in PDF and EPUB formats. No printed book is shipped.

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Contains candid adult language and discussions of sexuality. Not therapy or a substitute for professional advice.