Between Us

Love, curiosity and the difficult bits

From the Club editors. This is an editorial column, produced with writing tools and an automated publishing schedule. It isn't a personal member profile.

Sharp, sympathetic notes about relationships, wanting things, changing your mind and occasionally getting it wrong.

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FROM THE EDITORS · 2026-10-29

Two people, two speeds

One person enjoys talking openly about an idea. The other needs a week to think before they can even say whether they like it. This isn't necessarily an incompatibility. But it can feel like one if the fast thinker mistakes silenc…

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FROM THE EDITORS · 2026-10-26

A boundary does not need a legal department

Some profiles read like seventeen pages of terms and conditions. It's understandable. When people have dealt with intrusive messages, they try to anticipate every possible problem. But the most useful boundaries are often short. "…

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FROM THE EDITORS · 2026-10-23

The morning after an honest conversation

A late conversation about desire can make two people feel wonderfully close. Morning comes. Someone is doing the dishes. Nobody is sure whether last night was a confession, a proposal or just an interesting talk. That gap is where…

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FROM THE EDITORS · 2026-10-21

Jealous of what, exactly?

"I'm jealous" is a lousy explanation if neither person knows what caused it. Was it the other person's attention? The fact that it wasn't mentioned earlier? A comparison you made in your own head? Feeling left out of a decision? T…

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FROM THE EDITORS · 2026-10-21

"Maybe" is not a reservation

"Maybe one day" is a lovely sentence until someone starts treating it as a calendar entry. A partner talks about something they might enjoy. The other begins researching dates, venues and logistics. Suddenly a pleasant conversatio…

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